Raising a child is not a simple task. Undoubtedly, there are many options available for a new mother today to make life easy for them. The problem is there are just too many things to easily confuse them but also, they all are expensive and thus, it is necessary to make a careful choice. Many parents like to make a nursery for the baby and they get a lot of fancy but sometimes unnecessary stuff.
Out of my personal experience, I feel that it is natural for us mothers to be overwhelmed and buy a lot of fancy things. Going overboard is easy but is a complete waste. You should try and choose essential items initially and then buy things as and when needed. Going overboard means a waste of money most of the times. From all the things I bought and used, I am listing some of the essential items you must plan to buy in the first year.
Crib
Crib is a must for those parents who are sure of not co sleeping. I was initially confused but later we decided to co sleep with our daughter as it was just too convenient. We have a big bed so it was not a problem. For parents with space constraints or who follow the theory of no bed sharing, a crib is a must. Crib safety standards must be adhered to and if you are using a second hand one, ensure there is no danger for the baby.
Cribs come with different features thus, research and see what suits you the best. Sometimes a convertible bed or sometimes ones with storage or a changing table can be preferred over the others. Drop railings though are convenient, but are considered unsafe. The mattress of the crib must also be bought carefully.
Stroller or Pram
A stroller is a must have item as soon as the baby is born. This is something I would suggest you buy before you get the baby home. Carrying the baby from one place to the other becomes very simple with a stroller. You must ensure it is not very heavy but is sturdy. Also, a stroller which opens and closes easily, must be preferred. If you intend to use a second-hand stroller, please ensure it is in good condition and has all security features in place.
Most strollers have reclining backs which can be adjusted as the baby grows and is able to sit properly. You must also ensure the safety harnesses are good so that the baby is safely secured at all times. Keep in mind the places you will use it the most, so buy a stroller accordingly.
Car Seat
Though car seats are not a popular choice in India, but in my opinion, are a must. This should be on the top of your list as these not only make travel easier but also ensure safety for a child. You should mostly opt for a new car seat as they will definitely meet the latest standards. The car seat can be one which can be used for six years else one can buy an infant car seat initially and then move on to the next level.
Rocker
This is not a necessity but my daughter used it a lot and still does, and this made life easier so I recommend it. We bought this when she was about 3 months old. She would just sleep on it and keep sitting for hours looking around. It was a welcome change for her as she was bored of lying down all day. We used it for feeding milk and then solids as well when she started eating but was not able to sit. Some gliders become chairs and thus, they can be used by the child for a few years.
High Chair
A high chair does not have to be bought in the first six months but yes, when the baby starts eating solids and can sit with support these are a must have. High chairs come in various models so you can choose the one which suits the best. I have bought one which can also be used as a booster chair and then converts to a table and chair, thus, we should be able to use it for some years. High chairs make it easy for a parent to feed the children, and they can learn to eat on their own making a mess of things and ultimately learn to eat like an adult.
Chest of Drawers
Baby clothes are very small and they can get mixed up and get lost in big cupboards. I used a simple chest of drawer which made it very simple for me to manage her clothes. A separate drawer was used for different items like pajamas or shirts or onesies. This also helped others in the house know where her things were and were not always dependent on me. We still use two chests for her and this makes her stuff very organized.
Changing Table
This is something I did not buy but parents who want a designated spot for diaper changes can buy. There are various models available and you can buy the one which has all security straps and a place to keep supplies. The cover should be easily washable as this might need to be cleaned often. For those who are not looking at a changing table buying a waterproof mat can be an option as these can be used for diaper changes anywhere.
Baby Monitor
If you plan your baby to sleep in a crib or leave them in a room for some time while you work in the house, a baby monitor is a must. This helps you to keep an eye on them and not be stuck to them while they sleep. With audio and video options you can see the baby and hear them cry when they need you.
These are some of the essential things you will need for your baby in the first year. When you start shopping you will be amazed at the choices available. I suggest, take out some time and research and take advice from other moms. Before you have the baby many times you do not understand the need of different things. Buy what you need and what your baby will use. Enjoy motherhood!
