Pregnancy is a normal word for many, but for a couple who is expecting, it is a word that cannot be described. From the time you think of having a child to the time you deliver the little bundle of joy, there are many emotions you go through.
The first time you come to know about the pregnancy, and you say it aloud, “We are Pregnant” has a joy which only matches when you see your little one for the first time. The questions you have, the emotions you feel, the changes you notice, and the preparation you do, is what the book, We are Pregnant by Monalisa Bandyopadhyay is all about.
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A Synopsis
“We are Pregnant” is a light-hearted pregnancy book aimed at the urban Indian woman living through her pregnancy. It is a great companion for a couple in the exciting phase where being nervous is natural. This book can be a go-to friend and act as a “voice of reason” when information is needed on any minor pregnancy aches, pain, and sickness being faced. It would also help the mom-to-be deal with the innumerable peaks and troughs her mind and body go through as the pregnancy hormones are on a rampage.
What Makes the Book Different?
When I was pregnant in 2015-16, I remember reading many books on pregnancy and child care. While they were helpful and useful, most lacked the personal touch a woman wants. To add to this, there were hardly any books that catered to an Indian woman whose style of living, customs and traditions, and household set up is very different from any other country.
Medical jargon is best explained by a good gynecologist and very few women want a DIY kind of a book during pregnancy. This is where Monalisa’s book, We are Pregnant is different. She does not talk about any medical terms (Google is always there), but she focusses on the feelings and emotions of a pregnant woman.
She explains the feelings, why you feel them, what should you do, where to focus your thoughts on, what to eat, have fun and most importantly look good. Monalisa addresses the concerns of a woman and how she can cut through the advice she gets from one and all.
About We Are Pregnant
Like other pregnancy books, We are Pregnant by Monalisa Bandyopadhyay is not a timeline but is written topic wise. It focuses on pregnancy rather than childbirth (though it is covered). The emotions a woman goes through during pregnancy is something not many people understand and the book aims to address her fears and concerns.
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Topics Covered
Nominally priced, the book covers health issues, aches and pains, tests etc. part from other topics like looks, travel, clothes, photoshoot and sex during pregnancy. From conceiving to cord blood banking, Monalisa Bandyopadhyay talks about most topics that concern a pregnant couple.
I have always said that the best friend during your pregnancy is your doctor and Monalisa talks about the same. A person you can talk to, who understands you, answers your questions, appreciates your concerns and is with you during childbirth is important and no one but your gynecologist should be this person. She emphasizes on the point to choose the right doctor.
Monalisa Bandyopadhyay also talks about mood swings, weight gain, exercise, ultrasounds, and other aspects of a pregnancy.
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The book ends with chapters on breastfeeding and bonding to prepare the new mom for the new life. These are specifically good to reduce post-partum blues and reduce chances of depression which is a common problem.
The book We are Pregnant by Monalisa Bandyopadhyay covers all important aspects of a pregnancy, Her personal experiences, questions and answers by doctors and anecdotes from family and friends, make this book a great read during pregnancy.
The book is full of tips and tricks to stay happy and healthy during these months. It also attempts to bust many myths surrounding pregnancy and beyond.
Should You Read the Book?
We are Pregnant by Monalisa Bandyopadhyay is a must-read for pregnant women in India. You understand what your pregnancy will be like, but you will read a book that understands you and aims to address your concerns.
This is a light read not stuffed with medical terms and you could simply snuggle in bed with a light happy read which will help you unwind after a long pregnant day.
Enjoy your journey to Motherhood, Stay Calm and Happy and enjoy this lovely book which will be your companion. After all, no one understands a mother more than another mother.
